When I Returned From China

I had been back from China for a few days and this was the first night I got to see you. It was the day after Christmas. We had been texting since I got back and you had told me that missed hanging out with me. You also said that you would miss me before I left. It was nice to hear. I thought about you a lot when I was in China. I didn’t like not being able to communicate much those two weeks. t was happy to be back and doing things with you again.

You made dinner for me that night. As you were finishing up with preparing for dinner I told you about my trip. I told you about being scammed at the teahouse and how it didn’t quite live up to what I remembered. It felt different and the nostalgia from ten years ago no longer resonated with me. I learned some lessons from the trip and I had no desire to go back to China anymore. Maybe if I went with you…

I brought you back those lucky lions “dragons” because we had such a debate on what kind of creature they really were. I wasn’t expecting anything from you for Christmas so I was surprised when you gave me presents. It was so thoughtful. You got me the book of places to travel in the U.S., the treats for my pets, the orange watch that I regrettably lost the next evening when I was out, and that Ritz tin as mockery of my Secret Santa gift in first grade. This was the first glimpse of your amazing gift-giving skills. I didn’t experience your wrapping skills yet.

pet treat

I was so glad to be home. It felt comfortable and right to be where you were.

Our First All Day Date

We had our first morning date on this day. I left for your house in the morning and you drove us to the Mastermind Distillery in IL. Everyone there were couples and there were a handful of us. While we waited we got some tasty drinks. The Bloody Mary I got was one of the best I’ve ever had. I could feel myself warming up from the alcohol and the heat while we were attending the demonstration.

When we got the tastings for the vodka and other products they had, I really took a liking to their moonshine, LPR. The guide explained the story behind the name. It was provocative but easy to guess what it stood for. I ended up buying a bottle of it after our tour. You got to take home a bottle of the vodka that we got to dip and seal ourselves. I forgot to ask you to save the bottle as a keepsake.

When we got back to your place, you put old Christmas records on and we tried our new alcoholic purchases in your lab. After a little bit, we started working on the gingerbread house. It was a cute idea and I’m glad you saved it for us. We had a lot of fun with and found many ways to be creative. I think it’s the best gingerbread house ever.

gingerbread house

This was in a way our Christmas together. I was leaving for China on the 9th and this was one of our last dates before I left. I might have seen you one more time before I left. I was bummed that I left while the night was still young. My friend was in town and staying at my house, but I honestly didn’t want to be with anyone but you. I had started realizing that my time with you was my best times. It diminished the desire to be around anyone else. We had spent at least twelve hours together and I still wanted more.